Yes, Submission is Sexy! As I encounter women young and mature on the subject of submission most agree and then there are those who look the other way. Primarily because they have misconceptions of what the true meaning is all about. Submission is not about being weak, belittling, demeaning, or enslave women in anyway.
Submission is simply coming under the mission (vision) of your husband. This is not intended for women to submit to men in general; she is to "submit" to her own husband and to him only. However for single women your submission is unto God.
Submit is to honor your husband in leading your marriage, family, and home. It reflets on you the respect you have for him and ladies respect is not a want for men, it's a need. To disrespect a man is like stripping him of his masculinity! As much as men love sex and need it they will remove their presence from you before allowing you to seduce them sexually once you disrespect them.
Respect to a man is what affection is to us ladies. There both needs and we must honor that unto each other. Men interpet respect as love and when we show them respect we are praising them. A submissive woman is a wise woman who understands the importance of speaking life into her husband. To be submissive we must trust God and His sovereignty.
Submission requires humiity, a prayer life, and the pilot of the Holy Spirit. Ladies once this revelation has been received you will acquire the benefits that come with being a submissive wife.
And remember, Submission is Sexy!
To your transformation,
Barakah Miller
Healing & Relationship Catalyst
Author of forthcoming book The Scales of Love
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Wednesday, June 17, 2015
Tuesday, June 16, 2015
The Scales of Love
Are your Wants in Alignment with your Worth?
Sometimes smart women make bad decisions. Over and over again. That was Brayla’s story. This uber successful single mom and businesswoman is madly in love with the most handsome man in the world! He has a fantastic job, a serious cash flow and he loves her. She truly believed she and Bishop were together forever…until she learned he was married. With kids! Brayla kicked him to the curb and learned to live without him. Now he’s back and they’re more in love than ever. And he’s still married.
Brayla knows she’s wrong, but she’s so afraid—afraid of losing him, afraid of letting go, afraid she’ll ruin the life of someone she loves more than Bishop, even more than herself. This is one time she can’t afford to have principles. Thank God for her girlfriends who don’t judge her, but pray for her. They’ve promised, if need be, to be the clean-up crew!
THE SCALES OF LOVE is a must-read for every woman. The message is clear: as much as you love him, you have to love you more--and keep God the center of your life and relationship. If that’s not happening, it’s only a matter of time before the teardrops fall! Get your copy today and take a ride on one brave woman’s courageous journey to real love—the godly way! #TSOL #TheScalesofLove www.barakahmiller.com
Sometimes smart women make bad decisions. Over and over again. That was Brayla’s story. This uber successful single mom and businesswoman is madly in love with the most handsome man in the world! He has a fantastic job, a serious cash flow and he loves her. She truly believed she and Bishop were together forever…until she learned he was married. With kids! Brayla kicked him to the curb and learned to live without him. Now he’s back and they’re more in love than ever. And he’s still married.
Brayla knows she’s wrong, but she’s so afraid—afraid of losing him, afraid of letting go, afraid she’ll ruin the life of someone she loves more than Bishop, even more than herself. This is one time she can’t afford to have principles. Thank God for her girlfriends who don’t judge her, but pray for her. They’ve promised, if need be, to be the clean-up crew!
THE SCALES OF LOVE is a must-read for every woman. The message is clear: as much as you love him, you have to love you more--and keep God the center of your life and relationship. If that’s not happening, it’s only a matter of time before the teardrops fall! Get your copy today and take a ride on one brave woman’s courageous journey to real love—the godly way! #TSOL #TheScalesofLove www.barakahmiller.com
Saturday, May 16, 2015
The Power of Healing
As an early teen I knew I was different. I had already lived and survived what seemed to be unsurmountable for a girl my age. My journey into this world was tragic as a premature baby and from that moment on as I was named ‘Barakah’ God had already declared me as his ‘Blessing.’
From the age of five through ten I was molested on and off; at the age of seven I became terminally ill with Crohn’s and Ulcerative Colitis (an inflammatory bowl disease; aka IBD) and being a severe Anemic; as a teen I was date raped and emancipated as an adult by the age of 16, stemmed from a tumultuous relationship with my mother.
A fatherless daughter naïve with no clue about life, love, and relationships my journey to adulthood was experienced and learned through trial and error. With no foundation on relationships, low self-esteem, no voice to speak for myself, no identity (other than living out the definition of what others gave me), and not a clue about love I endured emotional, mental, and financial abuse.
I was completely unhappy! With no direction, motivation, or anyone showing me how to become the woman I knew I was destined to be. I long for that moment for someone to value me, to love me, to believe in me, and not use me or take me for granted.
As I experienced life I became a mother of five beautiful blessings. However, it was not until my last birth in 2003 where things actually began to shift for me. The unthinkable happened…my ‘Ramiyah’ met an untimely death after three weeks of being born prematurely. I was devastated and immediately I found myself comatose into a deep depression. I knew I needed a breakthrough and there was more to this story than I could currently comprehend at that time. God was up to something.
Two months later I found myself at a women’s success conference. I knew I needed help from my deep escape from the world and God was the only one to assist me with this process. I lived in a dark place for a long time masking my pain and with no identity. Only to hinder my progress as the pain and hurt continued to build over the years. It was truly in the death of my child where life was given back to me. I no longer look at her untimely departure as “death” but “LIFE” given back to me and her through the awesome power, grace, mercy, and love of the almighty God!
Why? Because that could have been me meeting death and leaving four beautiful gifts without a mother. I was given another chance at life. To finally make my debut in discovering who I truly am. In that revelation I knew I had to pull my strength and get it together. That was my first step to my commitment to heal. I began my journey of healing and personal development in the midst of that conference. I was an emotional drained and flawed woman filled with so much emotional trauma, pain, anger, and disappointments. Yet, the journey to ME was in motion and I was ready for the ride.
Victim to Victorious! After attending that conference six months later I began to release the pain and emptiness buried within me. I began to smile, laugh, and restoring of my confidence was rebuilding.
It was not an easy transformation. I had to give myself permission to expose my truth to me. I had to acknowledge my pain and confront it and not allow the fear within me to block my transformation. I was ready, I was willing, I was scared, I was nervous, but I knew what I envisioned on the other side looked like to be whole, to be free and above all worthy of my healing and self-love. I was ready to forgive and love.
Today, I am extremely passionate about the power of healing and the dynamics of how it can completely transform any relationship. My self-care in my healing has made a tremendous difference in my relationships so much that I consistently implement a self evaluation to ensure there is no residue lingering that will sabotage my relationships. I invite you to experience the journey of healing in your life, love, and relationships I promise your life will never be the same.
I am Fearless-Bold-Confident-Intentonal-Geniune-Authentic-Unapologetic about my story! And I pray the same for you.
Rule: Healing unlocks the pathway to self-love and forgiveness.
Barakah Miller
Healing & Relationship Catalyst
Author of The Scales of Love
www.barakahmiller.com
From the age of five through ten I was molested on and off; at the age of seven I became terminally ill with Crohn’s and Ulcerative Colitis (an inflammatory bowl disease; aka IBD) and being a severe Anemic; as a teen I was date raped and emancipated as an adult by the age of 16, stemmed from a tumultuous relationship with my mother.
A fatherless daughter naïve with no clue about life, love, and relationships my journey to adulthood was experienced and learned through trial and error. With no foundation on relationships, low self-esteem, no voice to speak for myself, no identity (other than living out the definition of what others gave me), and not a clue about love I endured emotional, mental, and financial abuse.
I was completely unhappy! With no direction, motivation, or anyone showing me how to become the woman I knew I was destined to be. I long for that moment for someone to value me, to love me, to believe in me, and not use me or take me for granted.
As I experienced life I became a mother of five beautiful blessings. However, it was not until my last birth in 2003 where things actually began to shift for me. The unthinkable happened…my ‘Ramiyah’ met an untimely death after three weeks of being born prematurely. I was devastated and immediately I found myself comatose into a deep depression. I knew I needed a breakthrough and there was more to this story than I could currently comprehend at that time. God was up to something.
Two months later I found myself at a women’s success conference. I knew I needed help from my deep escape from the world and God was the only one to assist me with this process. I lived in a dark place for a long time masking my pain and with no identity. Only to hinder my progress as the pain and hurt continued to build over the years. It was truly in the death of my child where life was given back to me. I no longer look at her untimely departure as “death” but “LIFE” given back to me and her through the awesome power, grace, mercy, and love of the almighty God!
Why? Because that could have been me meeting death and leaving four beautiful gifts without a mother. I was given another chance at life. To finally make my debut in discovering who I truly am. In that revelation I knew I had to pull my strength and get it together. That was my first step to my commitment to heal. I began my journey of healing and personal development in the midst of that conference. I was an emotional drained and flawed woman filled with so much emotional trauma, pain, anger, and disappointments. Yet, the journey to ME was in motion and I was ready for the ride.
Victim to Victorious! After attending that conference six months later I began to release the pain and emptiness buried within me. I began to smile, laugh, and restoring of my confidence was rebuilding.
It was not an easy transformation. I had to give myself permission to expose my truth to me. I had to acknowledge my pain and confront it and not allow the fear within me to block my transformation. I was ready, I was willing, I was scared, I was nervous, but I knew what I envisioned on the other side looked like to be whole, to be free and above all worthy of my healing and self-love. I was ready to forgive and love.
Today, I am extremely passionate about the power of healing and the dynamics of how it can completely transform any relationship. My self-care in my healing has made a tremendous difference in my relationships so much that I consistently implement a self evaluation to ensure there is no residue lingering that will sabotage my relationships. I invite you to experience the journey of healing in your life, love, and relationships I promise your life will never be the same.
I am Fearless-Bold-Confident-Intentonal-Geniune-Authentic-Unapologetic about my story! And I pray the same for you.
Rule: Healing unlocks the pathway to self-love and forgiveness.
Barakah Miller
Healing & Relationship Catalyst
Author of The Scales of Love
www.barakahmiller.com
The Scales of Love
Today only you can pre-order my book for just $5! Order here: www.barakahmiller.com
Who You Fightin For?
Indeed...people appreciate what you have before it’s too late and someone else will! You’d be on the sideline regretting what you gave up...realizing it was you who gave up cause you were fighting for the wrong thing or not at all. Fight for the person, not the relationship! #thereisadifference
Relationships A Two-Way Street May-Session
Meet me here today as I join Darnell Glover as his Special Guest! Darnell Glover is Author and Host of Relationships A Two-Way Street-Part 2. "With all new Questions, Situations, Matters, and Ordeals!"
Here's the deets see you tonight!
Date: Saturday May 16, 2015
Time: 7:00PM
Where: Jungle Juice Bar, Inc.
14929 Charlevoix - Grosse Pointe Park, MI - 48230
Here's the deets see you tonight!
Date: Saturday May 16, 2015
Time: 7:00PM
Where: Jungle Juice Bar, Inc.
14929 Charlevoix - Grosse Pointe Park, MI - 48230
Thursday, October 30, 2014
The Scales of Love "Best Seller" Campaign
Are your Wants in Alignment with your Worth?
Sometimes smart women make bad decisions. Over and over again. That was Brayla’s story. This uber successful single mom and businesswoman is madly in love with the most handsome man in the world! He has a fantastic job, a serious cash flow and he loves her. She truly believed she and Bishop were together forever…until she learned he was married. With kids! Brayla kicked him to the curb and learned to live without him. Now he’s back and they’re more in love than ever. And he’s still married.
Brayla knows she’s wrong, but she’s so afraid—afraid of losing him, afraid of letting go, afraid she’ll ruin the life of someone she loves more than Bishop, even more than herself. This is one time she can’t afford to have principles. Thank God for her girlfriends who don’t judge her, but pray for her. They’ve promised, if need be, to be the clean-up crew!
THE SCALES OF LOVE is a must-read for every woman. The message is clear: as much as you love him, you have to love you more--and keep God the center of your life and relationship. If that’s not happening, it’s only a matter of time before the teardrops fall! Get your copy today and take a ride on one brave woman’s courageous journey to real love—the godly way!
Sometimes smart women make bad decisions. Over and over again. That was Brayla’s story. This uber successful single mom and businesswoman is madly in love with the most handsome man in the world! He has a fantastic job, a serious cash flow and he loves her. She truly believed she and Bishop were together forever…until she learned he was married. With kids! Brayla kicked him to the curb and learned to live without him. Now he’s back and they’re more in love than ever. And he’s still married.
Brayla knows she’s wrong, but she’s so afraid—afraid of losing him, afraid of letting go, afraid she’ll ruin the life of someone she loves more than Bishop, even more than herself. This is one time she can’t afford to have principles. Thank God for her girlfriends who don’t judge her, but pray for her. They’ve promised, if need be, to be the clean-up crew!
THE SCALES OF LOVE is a must-read for every woman. The message is clear: as much as you love him, you have to love you more--and keep God the center of your life and relationship. If that’s not happening, it’s only a matter of time before the teardrops fall! Get your copy today and take a ride on one brave woman’s courageous journey to real love—the godly way!
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Breakthrough Gram
Best Relationship Advice:
Don’t say it if you don’t mean it and can live with the consequences of your own words.
#therelationshipcatalyst
Don’t say it if you don’t mean it and can live with the consequences of your own words.
#therelationshipcatalyst
Breakthrough Gram
Words to Ponder-If your significant other had to choose all over again, would they choose you? #appreciatewhatyouhaveorsomeoneelsewill
Saturday, April 19, 2014
Meet the Author of The Scales of Love
Who is Barakah?
Barakah Miller, is a woman on a mission! In her first published book The Scales of Love Barakah, captures her readers with engaging content and engulfs them in the lives of her characters as they come to life from page to page.
She's an inspirational coach, speaker, creative strategist, content curator, and love & relationship specialist. She has been transforming and encouraging audiences for over a decade. Her powerful message of encouragement, resilience, perseverance, and empowerment has impacted the lives of adults and teens.
Her book The Scales of Love is a fiction novel inspired by true events from her own personal experiences and relationships. A compelling story of strength, courage, and finding your own self-worth. This entertaining and realistic novel about relationships, love, commitment, forgiveness, and self-discovery is sure to leave you on the edge of your seats.
The Scales of Love is about metanoia. The journey of changing one's mind, heart, self, and way of life. The anticipation and momentum from her reviewers is slated to catapulted her popularity across the globe.
As a powerful relationship communication specialist, specializing in what matters most, 'Life, Love, & Relationships' has audiences captivated through her courage to conquer the most fearful and unhealthy situations.
Ms. Miller’s eye-opening story of transforming her own life as a struggling mother on public assistance and unhealthy relationships (intimate, personal, and family) to now transformational speaker who is boldly teaching and showing others they can do the same.
Beautifying you from the inside out with style and grace is her mantra and she does it well with elegance and brilliance.
Ms. Miller is a firm believer that your gift will make room for you and usher you into the presence of men with great honor...(Proverbs 18:16) if you just believe!
For bookings or media contact gcgintl@gmail.com
Barakah is available for conferences, luncheons, retreats, workshops, group sessions, corporate meetings, and church events.
Barakah Miller, is a woman on a mission! In her first published book The Scales of Love Barakah, captures her readers with engaging content and engulfs them in the lives of her characters as they come to life from page to page.
She's an inspirational coach, speaker, creative strategist, content curator, and love & relationship specialist. She has been transforming and encouraging audiences for over a decade. Her powerful message of encouragement, resilience, perseverance, and empowerment has impacted the lives of adults and teens.
Her book The Scales of Love is a fiction novel inspired by true events from her own personal experiences and relationships. A compelling story of strength, courage, and finding your own self-worth. This entertaining and realistic novel about relationships, love, commitment, forgiveness, and self-discovery is sure to leave you on the edge of your seats.
The Scales of Love is about metanoia. The journey of changing one's mind, heart, self, and way of life. The anticipation and momentum from her reviewers is slated to catapulted her popularity across the globe.
As a powerful relationship communication specialist, specializing in what matters most, 'Life, Love, & Relationships' has audiences captivated through her courage to conquer the most fearful and unhealthy situations.
Ms. Miller’s eye-opening story of transforming her own life as a struggling mother on public assistance and unhealthy relationships (intimate, personal, and family) to now transformational speaker who is boldly teaching and showing others they can do the same.
Beautifying you from the inside out with style and grace is her mantra and she does it well with elegance and brilliance.
Ms. Miller is a firm believer that your gift will make room for you and usher you into the presence of men with great honor...(Proverbs 18:16) if you just believe!
For bookings or media contact gcgintl@gmail.com
Barakah is available for conferences, luncheons, retreats, workshops, group sessions, corporate meetings, and church events.
Thursday, April 17, 2014
The Scales of Love
In her debut book 'The Scales of Love,' author Barakah Miller captures her readers with engaging content and engulfs them in the lives of her characters as they come to life with every turn of the page.
A compelling story of strength, courage, and finding your self-worth. This entertaining and realistic novel about relationships, love, commitment, forgiveness, and self-discovery is sure to leave you on the edge of your seats.
Embracing Brayla is about metanoia. The journey of changing one's mind, heart, self, and way of life. Brayla Thompson, is a top notch business woman, single mother, lover of God, and is in love with Bishop Moore.
Although their relationship has been on and off for over a six year period, Bishop still remains strong in professing his love for her and he truly adores Brayla. The catch is he's married and as his relationship with Brayla begins to unravel secrets are revealed and the question 'is love enough' becomes the challenge they both look to each other to answer.
Endorsements
“A powerful contemporary story highly recommend reading with a relevancy that all should read and relate too.”
~Sylvia Hubbard, Motown Writers Network
“This book absolutely delivers the goods. It’s an engaging, relevant, and powerful story that everyone needs to read. Once I picked it up I couldn’t put it down until I finished with it.” ~Travis Brown, Business Coach/Entrepreneur
“I absolutely loved this book. This is a highly recommended read for both males and females. Everyone would be able to relate to the characters in some form.”
~Sonya Anthony, Entrepreneur
“I am not a big reader but, this book once I started reading I could not put the book down.”
~Dionnedra Reid, E.M.M.A. Association
Barakah Miller
Author/Speaker/Love & Relationship Specialist
"The Scales of Love" coming soon!
Place your order today & thanks for your support!
A compelling story of strength, courage, and finding your self-worth. This entertaining and realistic novel about relationships, love, commitment, forgiveness, and self-discovery is sure to leave you on the edge of your seats.
Embracing Brayla is about metanoia. The journey of changing one's mind, heart, self, and way of life. Brayla Thompson, is a top notch business woman, single mother, lover of God, and is in love with Bishop Moore.
Although their relationship has been on and off for over a six year period, Bishop still remains strong in professing his love for her and he truly adores Brayla. The catch is he's married and as his relationship with Brayla begins to unravel secrets are revealed and the question 'is love enough' becomes the challenge they both look to each other to answer.
Endorsements
“A powerful contemporary story highly recommend reading with a relevancy that all should read and relate too.”
~Sylvia Hubbard, Motown Writers Network
“This book absolutely delivers the goods. It’s an engaging, relevant, and powerful story that everyone needs to read. Once I picked it up I couldn’t put it down until I finished with it.” ~Travis Brown, Business Coach/Entrepreneur
“I absolutely loved this book. This is a highly recommended read for both males and females. Everyone would be able to relate to the characters in some form.”
~Sonya Anthony, Entrepreneur
“I am not a big reader but, this book once I started reading I could not put the book down.”
~Dionnedra Reid, E.M.M.A. Association
Barakah Miller
Author/Speaker/Love & Relationship Specialist
"The Scales of Love" coming soon!
Place your order today & thanks for your support!
Wednesday, January 8, 2014
Words to Ponder
It is perplexing to comfort other people when you wish there were someone who would comfort you. Be careful being the person that's always pouring into people but they can never pour into you.
Trust God!
Barakah Miller
Relationship Communication Specialist
Author of forthcoming book
"Yes I'm Single But, My Heart is Taken: Committed to A Deception"
~Transcending Hearts & Minds through style and grace.~
Trust God!
Barakah Miller
Relationship Communication Specialist
Author of forthcoming book
"Yes I'm Single But, My Heart is Taken: Committed to A Deception"
~Transcending Hearts & Minds through style and grace.~
Sunday, December 22, 2013
Words to Ponder
It's easier to make Excuses, than put forth the Effort!
Are you worth it? Is your relationship worth it? What about your future? How bad do you want it?
Anything of value is worth working for and holding onto. No matter how hard the struggle, the differences, or the flaws.
No one said it would be easy, trust it. Make the choice to work it out or move out the way so someone else can cherish what you couldn't.
Life, Love, & Relationships are build upon the choices we make.
Trust God!
Barakah Miller
Relationship Communication Specialist
Author of forthcoming book
"The Scales of Love"
~Transcending Hearts & Minds through style and grace.~
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